Positive-negative ratios

Over on The Adventures of Miss Behavior, Enedelia Sanner has a post about getting data on her children’s behavior before introducing interventions. As I suspect is true for most folks, she doesn’t always gather baseline data, even though she’s an informed behavior analyst. In the post she makes some good points about the value of data in informing practice, but there’s another feature of the post to which I want to point.

I’ve been looking around to try to determine what our next “target behavior” will be. Honestly, choosing one was a bit difficult! I realized that if I feel we have quite a bit to work on, I know there is one thing I should work on first: improving the ratio of “positive” interactions to one-sided, negative interactions. I read once in “Parenting with Love” by Dr. Glenn I. Latham, that parents should have no more than 1 negative interaction for every 8 positive interactions with each child in their family. In “The Power of Positive Parenting”, written by the same author, he noted that he often recommended to families that they should strive for at least 20 positive interactions with their children every hour (when the children were exhibiting appropriate behavior). Of course, the interactions need to be short to fit them all in… usually around 10 words long (or less), or even just a wink or pat on the back letting them know that they are doing something right and you’d like to see more of it! Even better, be descriptive and precise about what you like. I know that my world is happier when I receive valid compliments and praise! AND I know how grumpy my world feels when I feel I am criticized and corrected in an unbalanced way. Can you imagine how kids would feel in the same situation? (Another way to insure to fit all of the positive interactions in is to IGNORE inconsequential behaviors that would typically elicit negative attention… but that post is for another day!)

I encourage readers to heed this suggestion. Creating a positive atmosphere isn’t hard to do. One simply needs to monitor and manage his or her own behavior. I’d like to find some teachers who are willing to participate in a study of self-monitoring positive/neutral/negative comments. One of the dependent variables would be the proportion of negative statements by students in their classrooms. My hypothesis is that when teachers employ the ratios Ms. Sanner mentioned, the ratio of junky talk between students would decline.

Link to Ms. Sanner’s post.